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Jayne H. Bilancieri Dudley

Jayne H. Bilancieri Dudley
  • June 12, 1956 - May 17, 2017
  • Marlborough, Massachusetts
  • In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to: UMass Memorial, Marlborough Hospital Cancer Center, 157 Union St. Marlborough, MA 01752

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“I am so very sorry to hear about Jayne's passing. She was a high school classmate and I remember her kindness and friendly personality. I will keep...Read More »
1 of 18 | Posted by: Jeanette (Neilsen) Renaud - MA

“Jess, I am thinking of you and your family at this sad time. I am so very sorry to learn about your mom. Sending you prayers and wishes for peace. ...Read More »
2 of 18 | Posted by: A friend

“Jess, Esther and I are so sad to hear about your mom. You and she are in our prayers. ”
3 of 18 | Posted by: John Asilo - Friend

“Deepest condolences to Jessica, AJ and the Bilancieri family. May she rest in peace.-Cherryl Barrett ”
4 of 18 | Posted by: Cherryl Barrett - Marlborough, MA

“Rosie and I send our condolences to you Cindy and the family. ”
5 of 18 | Posted by: Ruthie Leonard - Hudson, MA

“Dearest Jessica, My heart is with you. Mom was your hero, your confidante, your Best Friend.Go forward with the tenacity and zest for life she...Read More »
6 of 18 | Posted by: Dee Victoria Cirone - Sudbury, MA

“Prayers and heartfelt condolences to all the family. Jayne is a true Angel among us now.Jayne, your contagious smile will be sorely missed by all. ...Read More »
7 of 18 | Posted by: Anita Veinotte - Marlborough, MA

“I will so miss that smile and that witty personality - her heart was as big as they come and once you we're in her life you we're in - she welcomed...Read More »
8 of 18 | Posted by: CarylAnn Herr - Auburn, MA

“Natale and family,I am so sorry to read of the loss of Jayne. I've known her since catechism days. Everyone loved her. She had the best and...Read More »
9 of 18 | Posted by: Carol Livernois-Mitchell - Hudson, MA

“Sorry sorry for your loss it is so difficult losing a daughter, sister, mother the hurt never goes away but thankfully we have the memories of good...Read More »
10 of 18 | Posted by: Kay & Paul Libby - Monroe, ME


11 of 18 | Posted by: Joyce & Sue Bonney - Sudbury, MA

“To the Bilancieri family, so so sorry for you loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Had lots of fun with Jayne growing up millham st. She...Read More »
12 of 18 | Posted by: A friend

“Jayne, we had so many years of wonderful fun at Marlborough High. You were one of my dearest family, and yet we drifted away because our to hecticed...Read More »
13 of 18 | Posted by: A friend

“Dear Bilancieri Family. So sorry for your loss. Jane was a special friend and person to know. My Deepest Sympathy. ”
14 of 18 | Posted by: Mary Gustafson - MA - friend

“Sadly the world has lost a wonderful person WAY too soon. I can't remember a time when Jayne wasn't smiling. Her annual July 4th parties were always...Read More »
15 of 18 | Posted by: Don Potter - Tyler, TX

“Jayne, Jayne, oh Jayne. The strongest and most determined person I knew. Whether we rode our bikes down Milham st., hung out on Chase street, swam...Read More »
16 of 18 | Posted by: Linda McStay- Desjardins - Auburn, MA

“Jayne was a good person with big heart! She also also reminded people it was Jayne with a "y"! Big heart even bigger soul! Will miss you! Please...Read More »
17 of 18 | Posted by: Bob Barrett - Mount Airy, MD

“so sorry for your loss. May God bring the family peace and comfort. ”
18 of 18 | Posted by: Heidi White - Marlboro, MA


Jayne H. (Bilancieri)Dudley, 60, of Marlborough, MA, died Wednesday, May 17, 2017 at Marlborough Hospital with her family by her side. Born and raised in Marlborough, she was the daughter of Natalie (DesRochers) Bilancieri of Marlborough and the late Robert R. Bilancieri.
Jayne, a graduate of Marlborough High School, Class of 1974, continued her education at Assabet Valley Regional High School where she became a Certified Dental Assistant. For the past 22 years, she had been employed at Pediatric Dentistry, in Marlborough.
She had a vivacious personality, always smiling, with a love for life. She found joy in simple things like Dragon Flies, never taking anything for granted. She was a steadfast Red Sox fan, loved spending time at the family cottage on Cape Cod, and with her "granddog", Ducati.
Throughout her illness she continued to live her life with grace, dignity and strength which was a source of support and comfort to her family and friends.
Besides her mother, she is survived by her children, Alan E. Dudley, Jr., and his wife Kyle of San Luis Obispo, CA and Jessica J. Dudley and her significant other, Nicholas Hubbard of Marlborough, her brothers, Paul and his wife Katie, Peter and his wife Cindy, Michael and his wife Kathy and Steven Bilancieri, and her sister, Susan Oldham and her husband Rodney, all of Marlborough. She is also survived by her former husband, Alan E. Dudley, Sr., many cousins, nieces and nephews.
Visiting hours will be held on Tuesday, May 23, from 4-7 pm at the Slattery Funeral Home, Inc., 40 Pleasant St., Marlborough, MA.
A funeral Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday, May 24, at 10:00 am at St. Bernadette Church, 266 Main St., (Rte. 20) Northborough, MA. Burial will be held at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to UMass Memorial, Marlborough Hospital Cancer Center, 157 Union St., Marlborough, MA 01752